Can you remember which bowl goes inside which other bowl, or which dishes should go where, in order for everything to fit into your cupboards?
I can't! - even though I decide everything's "place" and if I can't - my husband's got no mission.
Enter the humble photograph (and printer of course).
Simply put everything into the cupboard, in its proper place, photograph the positioning (take a couple of close-up photos if needed), print said photograph(s) and stick up inside the cupboard door or to the side of your shelves.
Photo clues also work well for how to decorate each area/room for Christmas etcetera, so you can recreate the "magic" each year.